Re-fried Tantra? Why not?

In the FB discussions that followed the posting of Sex and Bhakti Yoga, parts I and II , many objections were presented, some of which I responded to and have since cross-posted to this blog, often with corrections, elaborations, and embellishments. This was partly possible due to my being in Rishikesh where I have been for the last two weeks having a good meditation refresher, sitting for three or four hours a day. I like the ashram lifestyle. This ashram is pretty loose in its discipline, but still I like the framework of a sattvika spiritual community. I have been giving one class a day on "Bhakti, rasa and psychology," trying to find ways of communicating my ideas to a group of yogis. Because my philosophy is a bit of a hybrid, as the title of the lectures itself indicates, what is accessible to one audience is outside the realm of comprehension for others. Looking back on the two weeks I see that (as one of the students actually told me) I am usually trying to ...